Are You Waiting for the “Right Time”?
Nov 19th, 2008 | By Rigdha | Category: Featured Articles, Goal Attainment, Goal Setting, Time Management and Productivity, personal developmentJust a quick (but important) topic for today…
I was listening to 177 Mental Toughness Secrets by Steve Siebold this morning and one of the secrets he talks about is the whole waiting for the “right time” syndrome.
I must admit I was quite hesitant to embrace the idea of not waiting for the “right time” when I first heard about it. It sounded like the greatest betrayl of our intuitive feelings!
That was a couple years ago…my thoughts on this topic have changed a lot since applying some of his strategies into my life AND in working with a lot of people who’re struggling with procrastination…
And here’s the scoop…
Intuitive feeling is a good thing but when waiting for the “right time” stops you from achieving your goals…it’s probably not an intuitive feeling, it’s usually your fear of failure or perfectionism tendencies acting up!
And that’s exactly where most of us get stuck! We have a goal and then we end up listening to this feeling that says “Uh…not today”
Well here’s a quick way to get over the “not today” argument… Listen, the “right time’” is never going to come down and knock on your doors…it’s something YOU have to create..
Falling victim to the “right time will come and will eventually motivate me to get this thing done” will just put you into a panic mode when the deadline’s too close or worse yet, it will prevent you from achieving your major goals..
So the next time you’re waiting for the “right time” feeling…try this…Just get started on the work…
Counter-intuitive? You bet!
But here’s the deal with this…
The hardest part of feeling good about what you’re going to do is to overcome the inertia of doing it…it’s the inertia that creates the “maybe this isn’t the right time” feeling to try to keep you from not doing it. (Remember Newton? A body at rest remains in rest..)
Just try it!
(and let me know how it goes)
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This is truly timely advice. I have been literally waiting for the right time to become a professional blogger. Truth be told I enjoy blogging and I don’t want to add pressure by monetizing the blog. Then it will be work, not fun…